到了3楼，护士让我躺在床上，开始做检查，需要躺30分钟。
30分钟后，护士来了。告诉我，嗯，contraction已经开始了，问我，痛吗?我说，没有。
再检查，护士说，开了3cm，BB的头，一摸就好像要出来了，需要立刻入院，今天可以生了。
我一时愣在那儿，护士问我要多少人的房间，我说，一个最好，不然越少越好。过后，护士说，目前只有五人房，暂住一下，过了中午，应该就有床位了。
惨，怎么处理入院手续呢?
这时，救星来了，家公因担心我，就跑来医院，一个病房，一个病房找我，超感动的！知道要办入院手续，家公二话不说，就去办了。。。
在病房的我，赶紧拨电老公，要他打包午餐及带所有已准备好的包包来，另一头的老公慌张得连忙说好。。。
无所事事的我，在想，工作怎办?还没洗头勒，怎办?
心里打着如意算盘，先到公司一趟，收拾，再回家冲凉洗头，才回医院等生。。。
家公回来了，我询问他意见，他不同意，后来，经我苦苦哀求，他要听护士怎么说。
护士坚持不让我回家，家公听了，更不让我走。。。
护士走后，家公坐在那儿，和我大眼瞪小眼的，我看他那么闷，就叫他先回家，我自己一个人可以。。。家公很贴心，他只留了我的手机给我，就帮我将手提包带回家。。。
11.00am，两个小护士来了，要帮我通便。。。我心想，怎么这么快?通常这药是要生时，才放的呀?放药不久，便意就来了。。。才解决不久，大护士来了，通知我，是时候进产房了。。。
嗯，怎么一切来得那么快?老公还没来勒，怎办?
进到产房，又是另一轮的检查，BB心跳和contraction程度。
这时，护士又检查，告诉我，开了4cm。
我不安的问护士，我来得及吃午餐和冲凉吗?
护士笑着说，都来得及，别担心。
12.00pm，躺在病床上，等候检查完毕；
耳边听到的是另一间一位产妇的呻吟声。。。她丈夫给她鼓励的言语。。。护士的指导声。。。
一切是那么的耳熟能详，岁月似乎飘回了2009年2月20日，自己躺在同样的那张床上。
此时此刻的我，心情异常的平静，没有一丝一毫的惧怕。。。
这时候，老公提着一包两包三包四包走着进来产房。。。
吃过McD午餐加McFlurry雪糕，才满足地去冲凉洗头。。。
回到产房，又是一轮等候。。。
两公婆，大眼瞪小眼，无所事事地，左拍右拍，读读报章，读读杂志，打发时间。。。
差不多3.00pm，护士来了，吩咐我换上医院衣服，到令一间产房等候生产。。。
(待续)
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Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
要生了！
11月15日
早上，因为时间紧凑，吃了一个没弄烧的隔夜烧包。
之后7.30am，上车要送玮栋去爷爷嬷嬷家时，感觉到肚子微痛。
老公揶谕我说，看好自己，不要阵痛来了，也朦查查地。。。
7.40am，一路上，肚子抽一下，一下地。。。脑海里漂浮着老公的话。
7.50am，一到家公家婆家，告诉一千号带玮栋下车，告诉玮栋妈咪肚子不舒服，就立刻跑进厕所，又坐又呕。肚子又开始痛了。家婆在外面蛮着急地，问我ok吗?我说，还好！
出来后，家公家婆建议我拿病假，不要走来走去，去参加顾客的新厂开幕式。。。肚子没痛了，我思索了一下，没答应亦没反对，只告诉他们我休息一下，看看情况如何。
8.00am，才陪玮栋吃早餐一会儿，肚子又痛了，跑进厕所感觉想呕，但没东西出来。出来后，家公家婆又紧张了，告诉玮栋弟弟要出来了。我说：“没有，没有！弟弟十二月才出来！妈咪的工还没做完！妈咪可能吃错东西了！”但，心里却有点忧虑，玮栋就是在我怀孕36周4天出世的。。。今天，刚好是我怀孕36周4天。。。
为了解除家公家婆的忧虑，告诉他们我不去参加开幕式了，我去医院检查。家公要载我去，我坚持不要，怕没啥事，很丢脸，也怕麻烦他老人家。家婆还是很担心我一个人驾车，我告诉她会将电话放在触手可及的地方。
8.10am，上车时，肚子又开始隐隐作痛，我忍着，强颜欢笑地向家公家婆玮栋挥手说再见。
8.20am，在路上，肚子又开始抽着了。打电话给老公，他也开始紧张，要载我去看医生，但，被我拒绝了。
8.30am，咦，怎么没痛了？
8.40am，没有动静。。。嗯，那我还需要去医院吗?还是转去开幕式？还是回公司做工?
8.50am，要到医院了，要去看医生吗?唉！去吧！去吧！要给全部人一个交代。
9.00am，到了医院。去了妇产科，告诉护士症状，护士说：“嗯！It's contraction...you go to 3rd floor to check baby heartbeat...”我听了，OMG！！！
(待续)
早上，因为时间紧凑，吃了一个没弄烧的隔夜烧包。
之后7.30am，上车要送玮栋去爷爷嬷嬷家时，感觉到肚子微痛。
老公揶谕我说，看好自己，不要阵痛来了，也朦查查地。。。
7.40am，一路上，肚子抽一下，一下地。。。脑海里漂浮着老公的话。
7.50am，一到家公家婆家，告诉一千号带玮栋下车，告诉玮栋妈咪肚子不舒服，就立刻跑进厕所，又坐又呕。肚子又开始痛了。家婆在外面蛮着急地，问我ok吗?我说，还好！
出来后，家公家婆建议我拿病假，不要走来走去，去参加顾客的新厂开幕式。。。肚子没痛了，我思索了一下，没答应亦没反对，只告诉他们我休息一下，看看情况如何。
8.00am，才陪玮栋吃早餐一会儿，肚子又痛了，跑进厕所感觉想呕，但没东西出来。出来后，家公家婆又紧张了，告诉玮栋弟弟要出来了。我说：“没有，没有！弟弟十二月才出来！妈咪的工还没做完！妈咪可能吃错东西了！”但，心里却有点忧虑，玮栋就是在我怀孕36周4天出世的。。。今天，刚好是我怀孕36周4天。。。
为了解除家公家婆的忧虑，告诉他们我不去参加开幕式了，我去医院检查。家公要载我去，我坚持不要，怕没啥事，很丢脸，也怕麻烦他老人家。家婆还是很担心我一个人驾车，我告诉她会将电话放在触手可及的地方。
8.10am，上车时，肚子又开始隐隐作痛，我忍着，强颜欢笑地向家公家婆玮栋挥手说再见。
8.20am，在路上，肚子又开始抽着了。打电话给老公，他也开始紧张，要载我去看医生，但，被我拒绝了。
8.30am，咦，怎么没痛了？
8.40am，没有动静。。。嗯，那我还需要去医院吗?还是转去开幕式？还是回公司做工?
8.50am，要到医院了，要去看医生吗?唉！去吧！去吧！要给全部人一个交代。
9.00am，到了医院。去了妇产科，告诉护士症状，护士说：“嗯！It's contraction...you go to 3rd floor to check baby heartbeat...”我听了，OMG！！！
(待续)
Friday, May 21, 2010
感动我的文字。。。
Nothing prepares you for motherhood. Suddenly you have all this responsibility and there is no room for failure. (Extracted from Women Weekly, Amy Mastura)
是真的呀！朦朦懂懂的我做了妈。还来不及准备也不懂如何学习，我又做了一年多的妈。一天一脚步，无时无刻的学习做妈。希望自己不会是太差的妈吧!
是真的呀！朦朦懂懂的我做了妈。还来不及准备也不懂如何学习，我又做了一年多的妈。一天一脚步，无时无刻的学习做妈。希望自己不会是太差的妈吧!
Sunday, March 7, 2010
Single, married and married with child...
Facebook is a IN thing nowadays. Almost everybody has their Facebook to get connect with friends, classmates, schoolmate (know or not so familiar), colleagues and etc etc. From Facebook u can peek into others life so easily if your friends always update their status and photos.
I like to browse through my friends’ page each time i log into the Facebook. Looking at their life are so fantastic, are so much excitement, are so eventful, are so energetic. Those single and available, those married without a child, they travelled around the country and the world, they attended all sort of event, they participated in almost all gathering organised by anybody, they are pursuing their dream by going overseas, for study, for working holiday, for...
With all these, sometimes i feel a little bit down looking at my own life. It is a routine, from Monday to Sunday, without excitement and spice. My freedom is limited being a mother, i can’t go anywhere and anytime i want as need to think about the baby. (Hubby is good enough and gives me lots of freedom. Sometimes it is just that my own natural feeling of responsible that can’t let me go out freely without the feeling og guiltiness)
My ability to attend all the gatherings and parties also limited caused i have married to Johor – a state which is 400km away from my home town –KL. Whenever i have chance to go home, be it long or short holiday, family members will always expect me to spend my time with them, and again, the feeling of guiltiness arise again if i go out with friends.
Because of all these GUILTINESS and because i am not a good social butterfly, i have lost touch with so many friends.
I am now just an ordinary woman who sometimes feels satisfy (sometimes not) looking at the growing son and a very good husband.
I like to browse through my friends’ page each time i log into the Facebook. Looking at their life are so fantastic, are so much excitement, are so eventful, are so energetic. Those single and available, those married without a child, they travelled around the country and the world, they attended all sort of event, they participated in almost all gathering organised by anybody, they are pursuing their dream by going overseas, for study, for working holiday, for...
With all these, sometimes i feel a little bit down looking at my own life. It is a routine, from Monday to Sunday, without excitement and spice. My freedom is limited being a mother, i can’t go anywhere and anytime i want as need to think about the baby. (Hubby is good enough and gives me lots of freedom. Sometimes it is just that my own natural feeling of responsible that can’t let me go out freely without the feeling og guiltiness)
My ability to attend all the gatherings and parties also limited caused i have married to Johor – a state which is 400km away from my home town –KL. Whenever i have chance to go home, be it long or short holiday, family members will always expect me to spend my time with them, and again, the feeling of guiltiness arise again if i go out with friends.
Because of all these GUILTINESS and because i am not a good social butterfly, i have lost touch with so many friends.
I am now just an ordinary woman who sometimes feels satisfy (sometimes not) looking at the growing son and a very good husband.
Sunday, January 17, 2010
Good Friend’s Wedding...
Good friend - FM in University has informed us earlier that her wedding will be held on 23 January 2010. Though the venue is far at Beruas, have been thinking that to attend the wedding with two others good friend with one stays at Johor, Kek (same with me) and the other at Malacca (CG). I / We?! have been thinking that Big Bear (Kek’s hubby) will drive and we will pick CG up when on the way to Beruas...However, the beautiful plan always doesn’t work so perfectly...
Few weeks later have been informed by Kek that Big Bear’s very very good friend also held his wedding on the same day...and he is not able to fetch us up while Kek’s also needs to attend company’s dinner on a day before.
The plan was totally ruin and i was totally no idea what to do and how to go. At the same time, get to know that mum’s medical report will be release on 28 Jan of which i definitely need to go up to KL. In heart i have already prepared the trip will not be materialise.
When called FM, she told us that we are her only “jie mei” (sister who accompany the bride to the groom’s house), and this made me changed my mind again. I was figured out hardly what to do in order to attend FM’s wedding. Try to convince Kek that FM needs us more than Big Bear’s friend needs him (very selfish act) but failed, try to convince Kek to let go her annual dinner and she agrees but her boss doesn’t allow as she is the committee member cum MC of the day.
Kek asked me to go with CG a day before and she will try to come on Sat but i rejected the idea. If go, three must go together and we must attend two functions. My insist is mainly due to i want the trip be more valuable as to attend the wedding, there are quite a number of arrangements and consideration i have to make. If i am away, my hubby and baby need to move to PIL’s house which mean it will trouble two parties. And since the date of the planned trip to Beruas and to KL is too near, this made me adamant. Also, if need to take public transport, we need to stop by Malacca to join CG and take another bus to Ipoh, and from there to take taxi to Beruas. The long journey makes me worry. Both good friends can have a good night rest after the trip but i need to take care my baby and to do some cleaning after few days not at home and need to work on Monday. I am really afraid i am not able to cope it.
I hope all my Good Friends can understand my situations.
Later, my good friends told me that they may hire a taxi to Beruas (from Malacca) and this will cost about RM550 (one way) and we will need to take bus to go back home on second day. Though it is a bit pricey and hubby is quite concern of my safety (but let me decide my own want ), i decide to join the trip since we are able to attend FM’s day time event which she needs us most. Again, nothing is smooth, before i inform my good friends my decision, i have received a call from mum that she will officially move to new house on 24 Jan. And, under this circumstances, i think my mummy need me more by going back to KL i can celebrate my mum’s birthday as well which falls on 25 Jan.
And, i still feel i have miss the chance to have a trip with my good friends and afraid that my good friends will blame me for not able to join in the event. =(
Few weeks later have been informed by Kek that Big Bear’s very very good friend also held his wedding on the same day...and he is not able to fetch us up while Kek’s also needs to attend company’s dinner on a day before.
The plan was totally ruin and i was totally no idea what to do and how to go. At the same time, get to know that mum’s medical report will be release on 28 Jan of which i definitely need to go up to KL. In heart i have already prepared the trip will not be materialise.
When called FM, she told us that we are her only “jie mei” (sister who accompany the bride to the groom’s house), and this made me changed my mind again. I was figured out hardly what to do in order to attend FM’s wedding. Try to convince Kek that FM needs us more than Big Bear’s friend needs him (very selfish act) but failed, try to convince Kek to let go her annual dinner and she agrees but her boss doesn’t allow as she is the committee member cum MC of the day.
Kek asked me to go with CG a day before and she will try to come on Sat but i rejected the idea. If go, three must go together and we must attend two functions. My insist is mainly due to i want the trip be more valuable as to attend the wedding, there are quite a number of arrangements and consideration i have to make. If i am away, my hubby and baby need to move to PIL’s house which mean it will trouble two parties. And since the date of the planned trip to Beruas and to KL is too near, this made me adamant. Also, if need to take public transport, we need to stop by Malacca to join CG and take another bus to Ipoh, and from there to take taxi to Beruas. The long journey makes me worry. Both good friends can have a good night rest after the trip but i need to take care my baby and to do some cleaning after few days not at home and need to work on Monday. I am really afraid i am not able to cope it.
I hope all my Good Friends can understand my situations.
Later, my good friends told me that they may hire a taxi to Beruas (from Malacca) and this will cost about RM550 (one way) and we will need to take bus to go back home on second day. Though it is a bit pricey and hubby is quite concern of my safety (but let me decide my own want ), i decide to join the trip since we are able to attend FM’s day time event which she needs us most. Again, nothing is smooth, before i inform my good friends my decision, i have received a call from mum that she will officially move to new house on 24 Jan. And, under this circumstances, i think my mummy need me more by going back to KL i can celebrate my mum’s birthday as well which falls on 25 Jan.
And, i still feel i have miss the chance to have a trip with my good friends and afraid that my good friends will blame me for not able to join in the event. =(
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