My Wishlist

There are two peoples impressed me very much for the past few days. The first is a trainer for a personal development training i attended on Tues and the other one is my colleague in another department. Both of them have a similar point which is they moved around the organisation to different department and they have moved up to the corporate ladder gradually. I fully understand that the exposure is very important for us who wants to advance in our career and i was ambitious once upon a time. Though i wish i can continuous to move up, i have too many constraints. First, i would say that JB does not have too many opportunities and secondly, i am not longer mobile with family commitment. And again, i fully aware that “If there is a will, there is a way”, may be i am just finding excuses for myself.

Actually, my colleague in other department impressed me not because he is rising when he moved around but his social skill when liaising with client. He is so friendly to not only the boss but also the staff. He can discuss serious topics with the boss yet he can jokes with lower level staff. I have thought of my boss’ boss – Mr. D. Some of my colleague does not like him but i admire him. He too, has a very good social skill. When he communicates to client, be it delivering the bad news, courtesy visits, first time visits, i see the professionalism in him. I hope in one day, i can feel free, have full confidence and show my professionalism when talk to my clients be it business matters or personal happenings.

Roller Coaster Mood

The mood is like a roller coaster this few days. Rushing for deadline and has been working till mid night for two days. Lucky to have hubby to help up to attend to little VT when he woke up at night.

Finally, successfully completed the assignment and grateful that the ultimate boss appreciate and praise the job well done. Who knows the happiness and relief does not last long...after few hours, some not so related colleagues from other department (whom received the assignment of which suppose to be their reference only) sent back the assignment with huge non-value added amendment. Feeling frustrated and sickening...

Pending bosses instruction, went back home early to have a good rest...when reaching home, looking around, feel so save and grateful that i still have a nice house to recover from my frustration. When see my hubby and baby, feeling so bless to have them in my life, to share my up and down, feeling touch to see baby to progress and growing day by day...

This is life. Read from a book..Happiness is forever short term...which will follow by some things that cause u sad, frustrated or have some negative feeling. U need to learn how to cope and blend it well to your life. Remember words from friend - 一念天堂，一念地狱 (your thought may bring you to heaven or hell) 。